Does CyberBullying Stop over Spring Break?
By: Paul Langhorst
Spring Break vacation – what a wonderful time of year for students of all ages. While the college kids may enjoy a wild time on beaches, high school and younger students may also be getting away on family trips. But, does that mean if they are involved in cyberbullying that it stops? No!
Unlike physical forms of bullying, cyberbullying knows no space or time limitations. If a kid has their mobile phone with them, they can play the role of bully, bullied or bystander. 24/7 access to social media sites means bullies can launch attacks from anywhere – including from the balcony of their beach condo. Online bystanders can watch or chime in to ignorant posts and their targets end up helplessly watching it happen. And, when the victims return from Spring Break vacation, they get to enjoy a whole new painful world of ridicule and humiliation from what may have happened while school is out.
The online world in which kids live today is rife with turmoil and trouble. According to research studies their yet-to-fully-develop brains can not cope with the social consequences of their actions. They may be having a good day on the beach, but their online life could be a sea of trouble. Talk to your kids about what they are doing online, monitor their activities, set rules and guidelines for access, and have a open door policy. Many kids fear getting their phone and Internet privileges taken away from exposing what they are experiencing on line. Make sure they know that what is happening is not their fault and that you are there to help.
Enjoy Spring Break!
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